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Comments on: Call for Questions https://www.thecorkboardonline.com/2013/05/call-for-questions/ Mon, 20 May 2013 11:48:38 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.8 By: Nathan https://www.thecorkboardonline.com/2013/05/call-for-questions/#comment-59841 Sun, 12 May 2013 03:10:11 +0000 http://www.thecorkums.com/?p=4951#comment-59841 I would love to known some tips for getting your young children ready for the adoption of an older child. We adopted Taylor through domestic infant adoption 4 years ago, she is 4. Now in 1 month we will be bringing home Ruth who is 7 from Haiti(well we leave on May 29 for the first 2-4 day trip and the 2nd one when we bring her home is scheduled for June 29)

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By: Abi https://www.thecorkboardonline.com/2013/05/call-for-questions/#comment-59396 Fri, 10 May 2013 13:29:00 +0000 http://www.thecorkums.com/?p=4951#comment-59396 How do you spend your time before your adopted kids are fluent in English? It seems like I could handle that for a couple hours a day, but all the time would be very taxing.

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By: Jen G. https://www.thecorkboardonline.com/2013/05/call-for-questions/#comment-59383 Fri, 10 May 2013 12:32:27 +0000 http://www.thecorkums.com/?p=4951#comment-59383 Our son is almost 5 and in thinking about adopting again, it seems likely that another child would be older. Our social worker cautioned us against adopting out of “birth” order. I’d love to hear of your experience and opinion.

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By: Rebeccca Haskins https://www.thecorkboardonline.com/2013/05/call-for-questions/#comment-59382 Fri, 10 May 2013 12:10:57 +0000 http://www.thecorkums.com/?p=4951#comment-59382 Hi Melissa, I have been trying really hard to use the connected child principles with our new kids. I have also been watching the videos but have only gone through a handful. I am personally having bonding issues with my children which often creates a bad cycle of misbehavior for my kids and anger for me. Anyway, I have been trying to do “level of responses” (1) Whoa Nellie, do you want to try it again with respect? 2) two choices 3) think it over spot. One of my issues our 7 year old daughter throws a fit. To keep her with me when I am trying to teach school does not work. However, leaving her up in her room is not recommended. Should I stop everthing with my other kids and focus on her? Most of the time she seems to be trying to get attention. The other question is what do we do with willfull disobedience. When they hear and understand you but they choose to disobey (often with no remorse)? Are their other consequences that are recommended? We are also having trouble with lying and I am not sure what consequences I should give for that. It seems like the 3 level of responses do not work but I suppose it takes time. I guess that was 3 questions:) I understand why you become a trainer. I need to study this to understand it.

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By: Heather Brandt https://www.thecorkboardonline.com/2013/05/call-for-questions/#comment-58512 Tue, 07 May 2013 21:21:12 +0000 http://www.thecorkums.com/?p=4951#comment-58512 We are adopting out of birth order, 2 older kids from Latvia. We have 2 other children (who also were adopted (but as infant & toddler). Did you wait a few months after the older kids were home before you officially started homeschooling and just use that first few months for attachment building and language immersion? Ours will be 9 & 10 when they get home (hopefully).

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By: Karen https://www.thecorkboardonline.com/2013/05/call-for-questions/#comment-58504 Tue, 07 May 2013 19:49:06 +0000 http://www.thecorkums.com/?p=4951#comment-58504 We adopted three children – totally out of order. The youngest first, the middle in the middle and the oldest most recently. The oldest and the youngest are (for right now) about the same age emotionally – and most of our struggles between them are a result of the “alpha/oldest/knows the most issue. What to do???

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