Yes, soft and replaceable for the kid 😉 Mine doesn’t even want me in sight so I usually don’t have the presence of mind to take anything for her, but thanks for the reminder!
]]>I would only add that in your parent “go” bag, perhaps have items for your child. Items of comfort. Our fd had moments of clarity while waiting, if she was older and could write, a journal would have been a good idea for her. Paper, crayons (if allowed), picture of happy triggers, etc. Whatever you feel or a therapist feels would be helpful. Note that those items may be — will be — thrown at you at some point… so soft, replaceable items are best.
Hugs to you. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt, and I don’t wear it. Normal is a myth I still chase on occasion 😉 Rock on….
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